Are mums being a denied a right to flexible working?

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Did you know more than 2/3rd’s of mothers would go back to work if flexible working was an option to them? A recent article in the CIPD People Management Magazine, from October 2016 states “2.6 million mothers are not currently working, which is currently compromising a whole host of skills/ experience.”

I personally wasn’t left with any other option but to set up my own business after struggling to find a flexible role. I didn’t want to return to work full time while my little girl was so small, and I was even rejected for a lower level role for being over qualified. See I was made redundant when I was pregnant and couldn’t find a suitable role to return to at the end of maternity leave. I was lucky enough to be in a position to set up my own business, but this isn’t an option for everyone.

Flexible roles are like gold dust. When they do come up there is a lot of competition for them. Why do businesses not open such sought after roles, roles that highly skilled mothers are just waiting to go into?

Why not allow those with some brilliant skills, many of which have great careers before taking time out to raise a family, to be part of your businesses? Not only that but there are a lot of mothers who are able to gain flexible working when returning from maternity leave, who would like to take other positions, some even promotions. However, this group feel held within their existing role because the flexibility they’ve secured won’t move with them, it won’t be an option in another role.

The issue starts really with the recruitment of these roles, how often do you see one of the big recruiters actually advertising a role as “flexible”? These roles don’t necessarily have to be part time. For example, just opening up a degree of flexibility such as offering to work from home one day a week or the option to come in at 9.30am instead of 8am two days a week, so a mother might drop her child at school those days is enough to open up interest from this huge talent pool.

Opening such roles does not only promote being a good employer who is willing to go that extra mile but also enables a way to find some of that talent that is currently unused. It can help your organisation to create a competitive edge (internally and externally), increase diversity, but also adds to the general economy.

To help support this I am offering a service as a flexible working consultant. We aim to help businesses through training, advice and support to take on more flexible roles and how to make full use of their existing family policies for all and especially for mothers, because being a parent is hard enough as it is!

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Author Anna Ives MCIPD – Director HR Puzzle



How flexible working can work in reality- an interview with “This Is Mothership”

This is flexible working

*Photo taken from ThisisMothership

We are lucky enough to have a quick email with Gemma Rose Breger from the super mama glam-  This is Mothership website, she also got Samantha Silver involved to. Take a look at their Instagram if you haven’t already and you will be in with a treat. Not only are these two mothers but they also have fabulous jobs and somehow manage to fit in This is Mothership. We got to ask them how to they work flexibility around work and children.

“Gemma is one of the most in-demand fashion and celebrity stylists in London. Sam is an award-winning beauty journalist and the beauty director at Stylist magazine while with nearly two decades of experience between them working on national newspapers, magazines and on television, for brands including Net a Porter, Marks & Spencer, The X Factor and Revlon.” This is Mothership

Please tell us a little bit about yourselves, how old your children are and what you do for work/ with your spare time (if any!).

I’m Gemma. I’m a freelance fashion & celebrity stylist and I have a daughter called Belle who is almost 2. I run This Is Mothership with Sam who is the beauty director at Stylist magazine. She has an almost 2 year old son called Leo.

How did you make the decision to return to work?

It wasn’t really ever an option for either of us to not return. We are both passionate about our jobs, and needed an escape from being mums so that we felt more sane (and could have time to eat lunch and pee alone once in a while!)

Any tips for mums on maternity leave wanting to return to work?

Go for it, at the beginning it is SO hard but we promise you it gets easier and easier as the days and weeks go on. Once you are into your new routine you will love it. We believe that it’s really healthy to have a balance of mum and work.

How long did you have off for maternity leave and what made you choose that amount of time?

I went back to work when Belle was 6 weeks old. I ended up pumping my almost exploding boobs on a photo shoot and almost had a breakdown (hormones eh!) and realised that I needed more time off. Sam went back when Leo was 11  months old.

How does your childcare care work?

We both have the kids in nursery, Belle is there 2 days a week, Leo is there 3 days and then we have family help out with the rest.

How do you make flexible working work for yourselves?  (ie mix of childcare, partners, work place was supportive)

We’re not going to lie, it’s a struggle. But once we found the balance and got used to the new routine it became much easier.

What does your working week look like? (How do you work it around the kids)

Sam works at the magazine Tuesday to Friday, and Gemma does styling Monday to Wednesday. We do Mothership in the evenings and at weekends.

How do you fit it all in, work, kids, husbands and This is Mothership!?

 We must say ‘we need more hours in the day’ about 400 times a week!! At the beginning, it was really hard but as the time has gone on we’ve worked out a better balance. Sometimes we have weeks when we are really organised and everything is scheduled, other times we have weeks when we are Whats Apping from 6.30am until 11pm trying to work out what we are doing and how we are going to have time to fit it in!!